you still looking for your soul mate?
Do you believe that you have found your soul mate already?
Maybe you feel the whole soul mate thing is meaningless or over
A Southern California dentist explained his position
to me this way…
He said, “I’m tired of women who are just looking
for a Sugar Daddy. If that’s all there is out there, I’d
rather be alone.”
This man thinks he’s a victim of
the “gold digging
materialistic women type” living in Southern California.
But in reality, he is just another victim of his own misunderstanding.
What has he missed and misunderstood?
The “nature of love” as defined through the Principles
of one’s own “Infinite Heart”… and an
understanding of “self” as illustrated through the
Principles of the “Soul Mate Myth”.
A myth is not
always something unreal. Joseph Campbell, the ultimate contemporary
mythologist, taught us that myths are representations
of archetypes which reveal our soul’s desires. What I term
the “Soul Mate Myth” is exactly that - a myth that
reveals what every human soul longs for: the perfect soul mate!
A Soul Mate Question
This leads to
a question that is a difficult one for us to ask ourselves:
What makes us think we deserve the perfect mate if we are not
Often when we criticize others, it is the
result of seeing a part of ourselves in them that we don’t
like. The dentist is also a victim of his own materialism. Is
he searching for
his soul mate
in the body of a young Playboy bunny type woman?
comment reminds me of a story I heard from author and radio talk
show host Dennis Prager. He described an
orthodox Jewish friend who was looking for his soul mate and
just couldn’t find her. Dennis asked him to explain in
detail the ideal woman he was looking for. The friend said, “A
Playboy bunny who studies torah.”
Soul Mates and Relationships
necessitates relationships - either to people or to things. A
romantic relationship is often our most important one. Either
we’re in one… or we’re looking for someone
to get in one with, or would like to get in to one.
We all want
to have great relationships with the people in our lives. But
how many of us can honestly say there is no one with
whom we don’t feel some degree of resentment?
Mate Myth and the Infinite Heart
Anyone married, engaged
or in a romantic relationship has a “significant
other.” But how many readers consider their “primary
relationship”, or significant other to be themselves? Yourself..?
The Delphic Oracle may have said two of the wisest words ever
pronounced: Know Thyself. How many people really know themselves?
And how can
or will we ever really know ourselves?
The answer is… by
perceiving ourselves - through the eyes of those we relate to – hence
by viewing ourselves through our relationships. Very few of us
attempt this practice and fewer
yet, succeed at it. I suggest that this is due to unbalanced
ego. Few of us have developed our self worth to the point where
longer become defensive when someone disagrees with us or criticizes
Soul Mate Myth / Personal Transformation
we talk about relationships we are normally talking about one
person having a relationship with another person. So how
can you have a relationship with yourself - since you are just
person? Who is relating to whom, or to what? Seems confusing
The answer is… that you are really two entities. (No
wonder we’re all a little schizoid). There is the “human”,
physical you and there is the “divine”, metaphysical
you. And one of the most profound accomplishments attainable
in this life - each of our lifetimes - is one’s own ability
to learn to transform “human nature” into “divine
A Soul Mate Quote - from Dr. Michael Mason
When you find the perfect love, the soul mate within yourself,
which is your Infinite Heart, you will find the perfect love
within all others”.
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the Awakening - Dr. Michael Mason
If you are in a relationship
now, ever have been in a relationship, or ever will be in a relationship,
this book is for you.
Michael was sure his soul mate was out there
somewhere. It was definitely not his wife, he thought. So when
he met the
who gave him what seemed to be missing in his life - he painted
in his image of a soul mate. The affair turned into . More
Personal Relationship Perspectives and PQM Training
is about relationships. How you relate to yourself - to other
people, other things and to the universe. PQM is a recipe
and maintaining balance, perspective and transformation in
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